The man is the head of the family. As compared to the woman and the children, the man is also the strongest in the family. Some men use their authority and strength to do things by force in the family. For such men, they deny their wives the chance to freely express their opinions in matters pertaining to the family.
Such men hardly spare their children when they disobey them. To prove their authority, they beat their children mercilessly over trivial matters. Such men are also the type who tend to beat their wives whenever there is disagreement or a quarrel. For such men, you either have to accept what they say or they will lash out at you.
Using force as a man is like imposing your will on others, not giving them the chance to express themselves or be themselves.
This is a clear sign of lack of reasoning or lacking wisdom. It is a lack of wisdom because nobody is always right in this world except God. Therefore, as a man, you have to listen to others – to your wife, to your kids- they might be right about something.